Opinion | Study of a Fight

[MUSIC PLAYING] “In that shot?” [MUSIC PLAYING] “OK, I believe it’s vital to not let all of our — although it’s related to us.” “Mm-hm.” “Type of to try to take a look at it as a — like a flash — a recent —” “Like two separate characters.” “Yeah.” “Um, OK. You prepared? Mm-hm.” “Did you’ve gotten enjoyable final evening?” “Yeah, it was enjoyable. Yeah, it was just some lads hanging out.” “You had been out fairly late once more.” “Properly, I labored a lot this week. I simply actually wanted to blow off some steam.” “I simply don’t perceive why it has to get so late each time.” “You don’t perceive. You understand, it’s so vital for me to have a break.” “Properly, you’ve gotten your work and your limitless nights out. However whenever you’re house with me, you’re nothing however a drained lump on the sofa.” “Properly, this isn’t about you.” “No. It by no means is.” “Properly, perhaps generally I have to blow off some steam due to you.” “Due to me?” “Yeah, due to you. My mates, they actually recognize me for who I’m.” “Wow. Good for you.” “Properly, if I don’t get it right here, I have to get it someplace, some place else.” “Hey, let’s begin this dialog over once more. I’m sorry.” “I like our life. In case you don’t, perhaps you need to do one thing about it. I’m uninterested in you all the time nagging.” “I’m solely nagging when I’ve a motive to.” “We’ve had this battle a thousand instances, and I’m uninterested in you all the time wanting one thing else than what we’ve.” “I’m telling you actually what I really feel. And I really feel that we would like two totally different lives and that I can see that. And also you’re mendacity about it.” “You’re so ———- manipulative.” “Oh, ——.” [BOTH LAUGHING] “Properly, —— me.” [CLEARS THROAT] [INHALES] [EXHALES SHARPLY] “Uh …” [LAUGHS] [LAUGHS] “Um, strive it once more. We are able to strive once more and check out it with the humor bit, and attempt to … or a minimum of, like, downplay the … as a result of what they’re saying is so heightened in feelings. Like —” “Yeah.” “… the type couple that don’t, …” “Try this, yeah.” “… don’t go …” “That’s harder, however extra —” “Completely.” “Extra love in it.” “Yeah, completely. Completely.” “Though I can’t,” no, I’m joking.” “Let’s simply strive it. Let’s see what occurs. It’s a pleasant thought.” “OK. Yeah, and we will see the place it sort of … All proper, um. Did you’ve gotten enjoyable final evening?” “Yeah, it was enjoyable. Only a few lads hanging out.” “You had been out fairly late once more.” “Properly, , I labored a lot this week. I simply actually wanted to blow off some steam.” “I simply don’t perceive why it has to get so late each time.” “It is vital for me to have a break generally.” “It’s simply whenever you’re house with me, you’re nothing however a drained lump on the sofa.” “This isn’t about you. It’s not.” “It by no means is.” “Properly, look, perhaps, perhaps generally I have to blow off steam due to you.” “Due to me?” “Yeah, , due to you. And my mates, they actually recognize me for who I’m.” “Wow. Properly, good for you.” “Look, I’m simply saying, if I don’t get it right here, I have to get it some place else.” “OK, hear, let’s simply begin this dialog yet again. I’m sorry.” “Me, too. I like our life, , I actually do. However, I imply, for those who don’t, then perhaps you need to do one thing about it I’m uninterested in you all the time nagging. It’s so simple as that.” “I’m solely nagging when I’ve a motive to.” “Look, we’ve had this battle 1,000 instances, proper? I’m uninterested in you all the time wanting one thing else than what we’ve.” “And I’m telling you actually simply what I really feel. And I really feel that we would like two totally different lives, and that I can see that. And also you’re mendacity about it.” “Oh, my God, you’re so ———- manipulative. This primary bit — ‘Did you’ve gotten enjoyable final evening?’ ‘Yeah, it was enjoyable.’ Like these traces, for me, from you’re fairly loaded.” “Yeah, for me as effectively.” “Completely, proper? Like fairly loaded traces.” “Yeah.” “Even that ‘Did you’ve gotten enjoyable final evening?’ isn’t a query. It’s virtually an announcement, it feels like. It’s like it’s a query, however what you’re ———- saying whenever you say it, . You’re saying. It’s like, ‘Yeah, I ———- was out late. Are you aware what? Yeah, I used to be.’ The attention-grabbing factor is, for me, is the truth that this textual content is sort of near house.” “Yeah.” “Certain.” “I believe, truly, that that is too near house is the difficult bit, truly.” “I agree.” “I believe it makes it … As a result of that makes that distinction between the place will we cease and the place do the appearing start —” “one hundred pc.” “— actually exhausting.” “Massive ———- time, proper? Massive time.” “I really feel like standing up.” “Straight up, yeah.” “OK, let’s strive it. Let’s strive once more.” “OK.” “Simply go.” We simply each try to see the place we will — as a result of I really feel, personally, that I simply wish to kill you once I learn this and that I’m proper.” “Properly, perhaps we must always each strive it like that.” “OK.” “Let’s each go for it, then.” “OK.” Let’s ———- go for it.” “All proper, see how — OK.” Properly, you’ve gotten work, after which you’ve gotten your limitless nights out. After which whenever you’re house with me, you’re nothing however a drained lump on the sofa.” “This isn’t about you.” “No, it actually isn’t.” “Properly, perhaps, generally, I have to blow off steam due to you.” “Due to me?” “Yeah, due to you.” “My mates, proper? They actually recognize me for who I’m.” “Good for you.” “If I don’t get it right here, then I’ve bought to go some place else and get it, ain’t I?” “God. OK, let’s begin this dialog once more, OK? I’m sorry.” “All proper, look, I like our life. However for those who don’t, then perhaps you need to do one thing about it as a result of I’m ———- sick of you nagging on a regular basis.” “I’m solely nagging when I’ve a motive to nag.” “We’ve had this ———- battle 1,000 instances, proper? I’m all the time uninterested in you wanting one thing else than what we have already got right here.” “I’m telling you, actually, what I really feel. And I really feel that we would like two totally different lives, and I can see that, however simply mendacity about it.” “You’re so ———- manipulative!” “OK, subsequent step, abusive relationship.” “Yeah, proper? That was ———- indignant, proper? Yeah, and it completely doesn’t work all on that stage.” “Nope. Properly, now we’ve it. Let’s go straight in and try to discover a steadiness and keep in mind the love.” “Completely. Good level.” “OK. Did you’ve gotten enjoyable final evening?” “Yeah. Yeah, it was enjoyable. You understand, just some drinks with the boys.” “You had been out fairly late once more.” “Oh, yeah. Been working all week, so I simply actually wanted to blow off some steam.” “You may have your work and your limitless nights out. And whenever you’re house right here with me, you’re nothing however a lump on the sofa.” “This isn’t about you.” “No, it actually isn’t.” “No. Possibly I have to blow off steam due to you.” “Due to me?” “Yeah, due to you.” “It’s exhausting for me. It’s actually exhausting to maintain a pressure on myself.” “Completely. Completely.” “And in addition, after we did it and also you had been holding my hand at first, you’d by no means do this.” “I might do this.” “No, no, like in an argument.” “That was a personality alternative.” “I do know. A personality alternative. However that made it exhausting as a result of I used to be like, ‘—— you, Dan. Don’t ———- contact me now. You understand you shouldn’t contact me.’” “However I wasn’t Dan. I used to be him. I do know, but it surely felt, that made, that sort of swap off me.” “You’re making me sound like I’m a ———- terrible, terrible individual right here.” “No, no.” “However I’m worse than she is.” “Oh, yeah. Wow.” [LAUGHS] “Sure?” [LAUGHING] “Oh, deary me. Let’s do some ———- Shakespeare as a substitute.” “Oh. I’m solely nagging when I’ve a motive to nag.” “We’ve had this battle 1,000 instances.” “Did you’ve gotten enjoyable final evening?” “Yeah. Yeah, it was enjoyable. Only a few lads hanging out. And perhaps I have to blow off steam due to you.” “Due to me?” “Yeah. Due to you. My mates, proper? They actually recognize me.” “Let’s begin once more. We would like two totally different lives.” “———- hell. I’m sick and bored with you all the time wanting one thing else than what we’ve already bought right here.” “OK. Wow. Good for you.” “Look, this isn’t about you.” “I’m telling you actually simply what I really feel. And I really feel that we would like two totally different lives, and that — severely, that I can see that however that you simply’re simply mendacity. You’re mendacity.” “Look. Look, you’re so ———- manipulative.” “After which he leaves.” “After which I go away to go to tango class.” “Come right here.” “I don’t know why I’m crying.” “Good.” “You wish to make out?” “No.” [BOTH LAUGH] “Would you like a cigarette now?” “Sure.” “Thanks.” “All righty.” “That was one thing else.” “Yeah, it’s attention-grabbing to … yeah, to see the place these traces are between us.” “Completely. Possibly we must always simply strive it yet one more time. See if we will perhaps simply discover these issues once more, ?” “Did you’ve gotten enjoyable final evening?” [MUSIC PLAYING]